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Friday, January 22, 2010

A Wife was making a breakfast . . .

A wife was making a breakfast of fried eggs for her husband.
Suddenly, her husband burst into the kitchen.

"Careful," he said, "CAREFUL! Put in some more butter!
Oh my GOD! You're cooking too many at once.
We need more butter. Oh my GOD!
WHERE are we going to get MORE BUTTER?
They're going to STICK! Careful . CAREFUL!
I said be CAREFUL!
You NEVER listen to me when you're cooking! Never!
Turn them! Hurry up! Are you CRAZY?
Have you LOST your mind?
Don't forget to salt them. You know you always forget to salt them. Use the salt. USE THE SALT! THE SALT!"

The wife stared at him. "What in the world is wrong with you? You think I don't know how to fry a couple of eggs?"

The husband calmly replied, "I just wanted to show you what it feels like when I'm driving . . ."

Saturday, January 16, 2010

How to be A Good Girlfriend

  1. It is very important to give time to your relationship. Do not rush through it. Enjoy the initial phases without worrying about the future. It is often noted that girls get too anxious about the end of the relationship rather than enjoying the present.

  2. Give him space. It is often noted that girls complain about less time been given, less attention, etc. do not be obsessive and let him enjoy his life. At the end of the day you are two individuals who meet up to form a couple. So, give him some room to move about like a free bird.
    Be candid and honest right from the beginning. This would give you an added impetus and make your relationship strong. Also, by being sincere, you do not give a chance of any lose ends for your partner to point out.

  3. Be optimistic and have a positive outlook. If you always indulge yourself in cribbing and having a pessimistic nature, he would rather run away from you and look for ways to avoid you. Be tactful in your approach and both of you would end up being happy.

  4. Voice your opinion, needs, desires and wants but in a way that does not hurt the other person or sound demanding. Let your feelings be known to him but in such a way that would keep him interested in getting to know and understand you as a person every time.

  5. Have realistic expectations from him. Do not go out of the way demanding things which might be too much of a burden and a duty to him rather than an act of love. Be happy with what he offers you because this is the best he can do for you.

  6. If your boyfriend does not like some of your friends, it is okay. He has loved you and not your friends and is even not obliged to do so. All he needs to do is to be polite when he meets them. So do not yell at them when for not liking them.

  7. Have mutual interest. If he loves doing something, adopt to his likes and interests. In case, you are not fond of what his hobbies, you can at least try to understand what is so special in it that makes him such a huge fan.

  8. It is a wrong notion that only girls love gifts. Guys too love it equally well. Surprise him with a little gift every now and then and he would be surely be overwhelmed. You can also go for a handmade gift that would make him feel all the more special.
Nasihat Dahlia Ahmad

How To Be A Good Boyfriend

  1. Be true to your girlfriend. The base of any relationship is dependant on how honest you are to each other. It also builds up the respect for each other. However, be tactful when situation demands. At times, the reality is not well accepted by the girl when it comes to dressing sense, looks, style, etc. On such occasions tell them in a way that does not sound derogatory to them and conveys your message as well.

  2. Most of the girls suffer from inferiority complex. Do not let this feeling overpower your girlfriend. Let her play an important role in all the decisions you take in life which is meant for both of you. If not, be prepared for the emotional game as girls often resort to this when they are ignored or not heard.

  3. Communication is very necessary for any relationship to survive. Talk to her and let her know about what you feel, what are your aspirations, what she felt about a particular thing which happened, etc. give them the vibes that she can confide in you everything and would not have to worry about it.

  4. Girls love to be pampered and when it comes to boyfriends they want it all the time. Pamper her with gifts, soft toys, dinner, flowers, cards, CD, books, etc. You do not have to get expensive items each time. Girls get impressed with even the simplest of all things like a single rose or a small key ring. So make efforts to make her feel special and loved.
    Romance holds the key for your relationship. If you are romantic, sweet and thoughtful, your relationship would never suffer. Gesture speaks volumes about what you feel for the person. Compliment her, leave her a romantic note, call her unexpectedly just to say those three golden words. Even if both of you have been together for a long time, you need to make efforts to keep the romance alive.

  5. Be interested in her interests. Girls love to talk and want someone to listen to them with a patient ear. It is noted that mostly guys do not take interest which usually leads to fights and tiffs. Show interest in what they say. Do not just blankly listen but be an active participant in the talks. Make them feel that something which is important to them is also important to you.
    Do not be clingy and give her space. Being in a relationship does not mean that she has no personal desires. Let her be a free bird and move about freely. 

Nasihat dari seorg rakan Dahlia Ahmad 

    Wednesday, January 6, 2010

    yesterday once more?

    semalam.. aku dating ngan dia...
    rindunye,.. da lame xkua tgk movie.. makan2 borak2...
    die kan selalu outstation,...
    movienye, Avatar.. too late kan? urm,....tell me.. aku mmg lembab!
    sbb aku xnak tgk movie ngan orang lain,.. macm xreti...
    before the movie, ktorg jalan2 kat times square..
    saje jalan2...
    really love it when he starts to share things with me again...
    talk to me.. holding my hands again...
    i just feel in love again,...
    rase seronok bila he starts to suap me again...
    and the best part... when he is saying sorry to whatever wrong he did..
    such as treating me bad and such...
    Yes. im accepting him... to whatever he did, i could adapt it...
    For the whole day, he being so sweet... treating me like a baby again,..
    giving me ample time.. giving me choices..
    making jokes with me...
    i just love him so much... ;))

    Tuesday, January 5, 2010

    percutian di macau yang menyeronokkan...

    Aku planning cuti nih... sejak bulan september mcm tuh...
    Matta fair, dpt package MYR 299 for 3d2n pstuh flight around MYR 315
    cost rendah je... tapi... hasilnya... pic yang best2... hehe..
    aku pegi ngan BF, mak ngan ayah dia .. 4 org jek..
    palnning2 nak masuk Hong Kong ngan China skalik... tp mcm xsempat..
    then..mase 15 nov 09  ktorg pegi.. cuaca seram2 sejuk gituh... best!
    shoping is ok in Macau... nothing much to see... but its a very2 good place to walk around and relax...

    berjudi itu haram ok~~ i know.. hehe

    honeymooners...? adakah?? hehe 

    this is in the Venitian~

    berjalan di sekitar hotel..

    Boot ZARA itu, hadiah dari kekasih hati... thank You yang... you make me look so nice.. ;))

    Diet yang berkesan..

    For over a year,...aku dah cuba utk kurangkan berat badan...
    badan yang dulunye mcm badak... sekarang dah ada shape yg membanggakan...
    bukannye sbb nak dengar org puji, nak pikat2 org ke apa..
    tapi, lebih kepada pencapaian diri sendri...
    bila tengok kat cermin... terasa diri nih cantik...
    ye...sume orang pon ada kecantikan nye yang tersendri..
    pekata kalau aku serlahkan kecantikan aku kan?
    bukan ke " kecantikan tuh hak milik semua wanita"
    dan dari situh la aku cuba dan berusaha gigih mengembalikan figure ala2 hot,
    zaman muda2 dulu... and this time... serius xnak gain weight lagik! (tobat2)
    the Bf penah cakap... sekarang badan lebih menarik... well.... ~~~
    tapi kisah kawin,... masih lagi xde progress....
    walaupon aku berusaha secara senyap... kisah tawan menawan hati ini dan itu....
    tapi kisah kami? masih sama.... ntah lah!!! :((